Thursday, June 25, 2009

What Must He Have Been Thinking

After clearing out the digital camera from vacation, some photos caught my attention. Timothy has such an expressive face . . . and this whole sequence of photos left me asking, "I wonder what he must have been thinking?"

"The wind at my back . . . the sun in my face . . . there's no stoppin me!"

"Did someone get the license plate number of that last wave?"

"Dad, have you lost your mind? What makes you think I want to hold a shark? MOM!!!"

"Back off. She's all mine."

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Monday, June 22, 2009

A Prayer For My Children's Heart

In preparing a sermon on Proverbs 4:23 ("Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life."), I began compiling a list of verses in Scripture which describe a transformed, regenerate heart.

As a parent, I know all too well the temptation of trying to shepherd behavior without shepherding the heart. After all, it's a lot easier to say, "Stop that!" rather than take the time to ask, "So, what's going on inside that led you to do that? Let's talk . . ."

In the Bible, the clear emphasis is on the heart, as behavior flows from the heart (hence Proverbs 4:23). No wonder God is intensely focused on our hearts (1 Sam. 16:7). The heart is critical, and as I am learning, to focus on anything less as a parent is to fall short of what God wants me to aim for in my parenting.

And may I add, what a way great way to sense dependency upon God than to aim for the heart! Anyone can legislate behavior change, but it is ultimately God who transforms the heart.

All that being said, below represents a working list I hope to make regular use of when praying for my children's hearts. May it bless and challenge all who take the time to read through these verses . . .

Father, I pray you, by the power of your Spirit and through the accomplished work of your Son on the cross, would grow my children to have a . . .

Blameless Heart
For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth, to give strong support to those whose heart is blameless toward him. 2 Chronicles 16:9

Generous Heart
Take from among you a contribution to the Lord. Whoever is of a generous heart, let him bring the Lord’s contribution: gold, silver, and bronze. Exodus 35:5

Whole Heart
Then the people rejoiced because they had given willingly, for with a whole heart they had offered freely to the Lord. David the king also rejoiced greatly. 1 Chronicles 29:9

Tender Heart
. . . because your heart was tender and you humbled yourself before God when you heard his words against this place and its inhabitants, and you have humbled yourself before me and have torn your clothes and wept before me, I also have heard you, declares the Lord. 2 Chronicles 34:27

Broken Heart
The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. Psalms 34:18

United Heart
Teach me your way, O Lord, that I may walk in your truth; unite my heart to fear your name. Psalms 86:11

Enlarged Heart
I will run in the way of your commandments when you enlarge my heart! Psalms 119:32

Tranquil Heart
A tranquil heart gives life to the flesh, but envy makes the bones rot. Proverbs 14:30

Cheerful Heart
All the days of the afflicted are evil, but the cheerful of heart has a continual feast. Proverbs 15:15

Pure Heart
Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God. Matthew 5:8

Honest Heart
As for that in the good soil, they are those who, hearing the word, hold it fast in an honest and good heart, and bear fruit with patience. Luke 8:15

Sincere Heart
Slaves, obey your earthly masters with fear and trembling, with a sincere heart, as you would Christ. Ephesians 6:5

True Heart
Let us draw near with a true heart in full assurance of faith, with our hearts sprinkled clean from an evil conscience and our bodies washed with pure water. Hebrews 10:22

Inclined Heart
Incline my heart to your testimonies, and not to selfish gain! Psalms 119:36

Enlightened Heart
. . . having the eyes of your hearts enlightened, that you may know what is the hope to which he has called you, what are the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints. Ephesians 1:18

Given Heart
My son, give me your heart, and let your eyes observe my ways. Proverbs 23:26

Kept Heart
Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life. Proverbs 4:23

Directed Heart
And Samuel said to all the house of Israel, “If you are returning to the Lord with all your heart, then put away the foreign gods and the Ashtaroth from among you and direct your heart to the Lord and serve him only, and he will deliver you out of the hand of the Philistines.” 1 Samuel 7:3

Wise Heart
So teach us to number our days that we may get a heart of wisdom. Psalms 90:12

Believing Heart
For with the heart one believes and is justified, and with the mouth one confesses and is saved. Romans 10:10

Trusting Heart
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. Proverbs 3:5

New Heart
And I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. Ezekiel 36:26

Sunday, June 21, 2009

A Great Father's Day

Playing in the pool with my son, walking on the beach with my daughter . . . a great Father's Day.

Am thankful to my wife for all she does and who she is in Him.

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Cling To The Father

Seeing this picture of Timothy holding on to my leg while I was fishing raises a heart question . . .

Do I cling to my Father until the world shall finally release its grip?

What about you?

Summer

Does this face say "summer" or what?!

Friday, June 05, 2009

Teressa The Supermodel

To my suprise, while during my stay in Philly, I saw an fundraising piece for Ronald McDonald Houses . . . featuring my wife and son.

Time To Wake Up

Landed. Time to wake up.

Thank you God for a wonderful journey . . .

We're Off

Up, up, and away.

Power Up

Milkshake time before we take off. I am hoping for no repeat performance of last night.

(Football is carry-on)

Nap In The Cab

Whew. Power nap.

The New Shell

Hot off the Paris runway . . . this Spring's edition of the spine brace . . . complete with trains and planes.

Unbelievable Day

I am waking up this morning, asking, "Did yesterday really happen?"

Let me explain . . .

Shortly after Timothy's cast was removed, the doctor said, "We will
get Timothy fit for a splint and have you on your way tomorrow."

"Tomorrow?", I asked. "Our flight leaves today."

She said, "Oh, that is a problem." Apparently, there was a mix up on
the scheduling end of things, so we began making arrangements to
change our flight.

Once having Timothy measured for a brace, we hailed a cab and went
back to the Ronald McDonald House. After an afternoon nap, I thought, "We have a few hours. Let's see if we can't venture out into Philly!"

Upon asking the staff at the Ronald McDonald House for some place fun to explore, they handed me two tickets to the Please Touch Museum
(www.pleasetouchmuseum.org)! Having 2 hours before it closed, I
thought, "Let's do it!"

And that's where the adventure really begins . . .

Our cab came to pick us up, and 45 minutes later, we are completely
lost. The cab driver kept following the voice of the GPS monitor
which kept saying, "Turn Left. Turn Left". I felt like we were on a
NASCAR track. "Turn Left. Turn Left."

After circling the city, I finally said, "You know, I think your GPS
may be broken." Turns out, it was . . . so our driver pulled up to
the sidewalk, yelled at a parking attendant in front of a downtown
hotel and said, "I'm lost. Can I get directions to the Please Touch
museum?"

A cabbie admitting defeat and asking for directions. I never thought I'd see that day. Turns out, we were 30 minutes away and not even close to being in the right part of town!

While looking for the museum, I received a phone call from one of the staff members at the Ronald McDonald House. She began by saying, "Now you can say no if you want to, but we have a fundraiser dinner this evening, and a family was supposed to share their story, but they had a last minute change of plans. Would you be willing to speak?"

"Sure," I said, not think about much more than the opportunity to help such a wonderful charity.

The staff member said she would pick me and Timothy up from the museum and take me to the dinner, which she did.

Now, mind you . . . I have been in the same clothes (pants and t-shirt) since 6am, and am smelling and looking rather sour, if you will.

We travel to West Chester, Pennsylvania where we arrive at a very nice country club. We walk into what I would consider to be a large crowd, and reserved in the front was a space for me and Timothy. White linen tablecloths. Director of the Ronald McDonald Houses in Philadelphia on my left. Fundraiser leaders across from me. More staff on my right. I'm the one in the t-shirt with the son in sweats and sandals.

Timothy begins eating a roll and gets choked up a bit. All of a
sudden, with NO WARNING . . . Timothy projectile VOMITS like I have never seen before. Imagine a fire-hydrant being opened, and out
shoots chunky, chocolate milk. (Sorry for being graphic, but I want
you to feel the experience)! Timothy hoses me, himself, and the
table.

Tell me this isn't happening.

Luckily, I had a change of clothes for him, so I marched right
past the "Members Only" sign, went into the locker room and got
Timothy cleaned up while other kind people did something about the table.

Shortly after returning to the banquet hall, the director says, "So,
let me introduce you to our guests. Chris and Timothy Lewis." People
applaud, I am handed a mic. Go.

And let me simply say, God is good.

I simply shared a truth God hit me with the day before, taken from the Bible. "By the grace of God, I am what I am" (1 Cor. 15:10). Only God can say, "I am what I am." He is the self-existent one. We, on the
other hand, need His grace in order to be.

I was stuck earlier in the day with a fresh appreciation for how Timothy and I are both what we are by the grace of God. We earned no room at the RMH. We deserved
no food at the RMH. We did not achieve care at the RMH. But by God's grace, we are what we are.

Granted, the grace spoken of in this verse is the Gospel. That being said, I have come to view the grace displayed to us through RMH as a very small yet tangible reminder of my need for grace . . . ultimately His. It is the case of the smaller pointing to and reflecting the larger.

So I simply stated that I find RMH to be a reminder of grace in a world that needs such desperately.

Can't say if I was coherent in my thoughts in the moment, but people were kind enough to stand and applaud Timothy (who at this point is cheering for himself). What a ham!

The benefit was a silent auction, and a man came up and gave Timothy a football he won, which made Timothy's night. I, on the other hand, would have bid some serious cash for a mere shower!

Walking by faith is such an adventure. I continue to be amazed at how God masterfully humbles us and glorifying Himself. Strength from weakness. Our joy, His honor.

Thursday, June 04, 2009

Here's The Scar

Ouch . . .

FREEDOM!

Although he is as floppy as a wet noodle, the cast is off! He ran out and said, "I did it. Let's play basketball."

And that is what were are doing . . .

Start You Engines

Sir Topham Hatt versus Lightning McQueen.

Oh, the ways we entertain ourselves in the waiting room.

Wednesday, June 03, 2009

Uh, Your Yard Is On Fire

Teressa, being the concerned wife and mom, battles worry whenever Timothy and I are away in North Philly. Enter irony . . .

While Teressa and Anna Ritchie were playing in the backyard, two strangers came to the fence and said, "We noticed your front yard was on fire as we drove by, so we stopped and put it out with your hose."

Sure enough. A landscape light had malfunctioned and set things ablaze!

Seems I am the one needing to be concerned.

Thank you, Father, for protecting my girls. And thank you strangers!

God Is Good

Unfortunately, there was no room in the Ronald McDonald House for us, but we were able to go from the airport to RMH to simply hang out and play with trains. The plan was then for me to call a hotel later today and check in there in the late afternoon.

Just as I was getting ready to call a hotel, one of the RMH staff interrupted me and said, " Mr. Lewis, this normally doesn't happen, but some one just called down to the desk and asked if they could check out . . . So you can stay if you want!"

God TOTALLY provided.

Taxi!

We stepped off the plane in Philly, and Timothy says, " Come on Daddy. Let's go get a taxi."

He knows the routine . . .

Up And Away

We barely made our flight, as the flight was fully boarded (minus us) and ready for take off! I felt like I was starring in one of those classic Hertz commercials starring OJ.

Whew . . .

Tuesday, June 02, 2009

It's Been A While

I am embarrassed by not having written much in the way of updates these past number of weeks. The days have been busy . . . and the wait to get Timothy's cast removed has seemed long.

During the passing of time, however, we have celebrated Timothy's birthday (along with big sister's birthday)! The big man turned three, and true to form, he shredded every bit wrapping paper in sight at the prospect of getting new Thomas The Tank Engine trains!

Regardless of living within his plaster cocoon we affectionately call "Big Blue," Timothy has not slowed down one bit. He has enjoyed hours of "swinging" in the backyard on his tummy while pretending to be Superman. Although he has not been able to leap tall buildings in a single bound, he has managed to climb a tree (much to his delight and momma's chagrin).

We have even found a few Saturday afternoons to go fishing. On his very first fishing expedition, I gladly placed a worm on his hook. No sooner than he lowered the line into the water, Timothy got a bite! After helping to reel in his inaugural catch, he shouted, "Good job worm!" I never would have thought to thank the worm for being a martyr.

Tomorrow, Timothy and I hop on a plane bound for Philly in the hopes of getting "Big Blue" sawed off on Thursday morning. That being said, on the eve of our departure, we aren't sure where we will be staying, we don't know when we will get worked in the schedule once at the hospital, and we have no idea what the next step will be in terms of treatment.

Somehow, it is all OK.

God loves us. God is over us. The rest is just details.

I'll try to post updates along the way . . .




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